DREAM VS. AIM

As usual., I am almost 22 years old now, and there is one same depressing question which keeps on bothering. But if you talk about me , I've never given this question any importance, I thought may be with time it will come to me , And was hoping one day I'll get enlightened from above (all mighty) that this is the task you have to perform son. After that, i'll be like on the top (a superstar). but now, days and years are moving faster , and the depression is getting heavier .
By The Way the question which haunts me is WHAT IS YOUR DREAM , WHAT DO YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE..?
Why it is sounding the most difficult question ever. as soon as I hear it , I pity myself.. and there is a sudden inner voice (yaar itna bada hogaya hain aur tujhe yeh bhi nahi pata, tera kuch nahi ho sakta,).
Anyways...
Few days before I was asked in my french class .. ok tell me your dream, so I thought the time has come I should start  thinking about it seriously(enough is enough i should know what is my dream at least). At first I thought of so many things like- 1. I want to have a degree of llb which will happen by passing my exams, 2. I want to be the best in sports , 3. I want to be a top entrepreneur ,4. Want to be happy as well as satisfied, 5. Want to have an abundant amount of money, Actually i am not sure what i want to be , because there are lots of immediate things I've been craving for . So i was left with no answer (how can I have so many dreams and which one should be ranked higher).
Then after giving it a thought, the outcome is, may be i am not understanding the question properly.
First I should know What does the word DREAM means..?
so on that same day after having a brief discussion with my sir (who is more of a friend)  that, Dream is something which is not possible to achieve at the moment by looking at the circumstances, or near to impossible (being an optimist person as I always Am). I suppose answering a dream could be a kiddish job, or something like a fairytale i.e.- I want to be like  Roger Federer , Sachin Tendulkar , Tom Cruise, Barack obama, Bill gates etc.(which sounds a bit unachievable  in comparison to d previous 5).
                                                
                                        So like I said before ,I wanted to have so many things, So those things for example like passing my exams, or doing good in sports, can be termed as my AIM or  GOAL, for which i have already taken a step towards achieving it, and will work my *** out to achieve it.
So my final answer to the question WHAT IS YOUR DREAM (IF I HAVE ANY) : IS-


My ultimate dream would be to convert my dream into an Aim and work my *** out in achieving it.

     

My friend

Today i went to my friend's funeral, we were in the same school... he just joined the army an year ago, but i realized it 2 days b4 when i saw his photo with d name on d newspaper i.e. Lieutenant Archit Verdia. he died in siachen while performin his duty (tht is what we all know). I live in a small town 'Udaipur' , and archit became legendary because he died while performin his duty given the title 'Shahid (a true martyr)' , Accordin to my perception i feel people had curiosity of watching The Guard Of Honour given to an army man ,rather than feeling for his family,foes etc. But one thing that struck me while on the way to the crematorium , there was a big rally of cars and the green truck which had the body of archit, right behind that in the open jeep i saw his mother and only sister. All the people screamin around ,there i looked in the eyes of his only sister which had a diffrent kind of spark (no it ws not that she wasn't sad) but the spark was of  confidence she had in her eyes or the proud feelin she had that the boy in the army truck is MY BROTHER  and i am the sister who sacrificed my brother fr the country . 
It is rightly said that in the end the king nd the pawn goes into the same box.
             But  I just know 1 thing that how proud his dad would be of him watchin frm heaven above.(his dad died 2 years ago)...Meeting his dad in heaven he would surely be welcomed by a strong PAT on his back fulfilling his father's dream since his childhood  with the words "SON U DID IT" . I am sure his father would've got tears while watchin his son getting all tribute and respect from the people in such a small age... (so i salute u lt. Archit Verdia u just kind of encouraged people to have their son and daughter go for d army.)
U DESERVED IT!!!!!!!!